URGENT: to cancel or not to cancel (afc alert)

[j8snx1]

The answer to this question may or may not seem blatantly obvious, but I would really appreciate it if you guys gave me feedbacks ASAP. I just want that reassurance that I'm not making a big idiot out of myself.

So me and my girl are doing well these days; we recently had some pretty intimate moments and she tells me she cant wait to see me, and other IOI's.
However, we talked today and she wanted to see me again on Saturday, which is today since it's 1:08 AM right now! However, I wanted to get some homework done because I have 4 take home tests and 3 essays to complete, and that's only one class. I have plenty more, but I would really like to be with her.

Regardless of her or my needs, I really want to put my priorities first, and my first priority is to get the homework done so I dont stress over the weekend. Do you guys think I'm making the right choice? Would this put me in bad terms with her, since she really wants to see me?

 

[Taviii]

**** that *****, dont sacrifice yourself for some girl. She'll just have to wait for you.

 

[j8snx1]

you can call me a b!tch for all I care, but don't talk smack about my lady fool.
immature pr!ck.:crackup:

anyway, anyone else think that got my points up as a challenge?

 

[Docs]

Anyone else think that got my points up as a challenge?

I can't believe it. I got to do homework, I'm a challenge now? That's some pretty high self-value for such a medicore thing.?!

 

[Alfie Crew]

If you have to cancel, aleast lie and say you are doing something cooler then homework.....family get together....idk

 

[TheNewGuy]

If you have to cancel, aleast lie and say you are doing something cooler then homework.....family get together....idk

No.

"Sorry you couldn't see me today, I had a lot of work that I needed to finish."

End of story.

 

[j8snx1]

i definitely agree with thenewguy.

i know it's good to use those "im doing something MORE interesting" lines, but every time? using it every damn time will eventually leave me no choice but to say **** like "oh im going to the moon today. I cant hang out with you."

eff that. i had work to do and i did 'em. no biggie

 

[six-foot AZN '05]

Whats going to help you more in the long run? Doing the 4 take home tests and 3 essays or hanging out with your girl for a saturday? Thats what I thought.

Girls are usually the spice to life. You probably should not add the spice before the meal is cooked. Its a bit late now but, do your hw and if you have some time left then go see her for a while.

 

[j8snx1]

Your philosophy IS correct 6 foot azn, but I can only agree to a certain degree. The 4 tests and 3 essays will help me earn the grade I need to graduate, and today isn't the only day left where I can go out with my girl! It's only one saturday, and saturdays aren't going anywhere. I'm making it up to her soon

 

[rowing_mike]

You have to "make it up to her", not seeing her one day because you got homework? Going back to your second point, I would guess that it does give you a few challenge points. At the moment it sounds like you pose **** all of a challenge for her. Try saying you're busy for next week too. I did some of that on a girl I AFCed before I saw the site, she was begging me to forgive her, thought she had done something to upset me.