one of my best friends is having a party on saturday for his 17th birthday and i just realized that this is a good opportunity to ask chicks out to. anyways im in grade 11 and theres alto of hot grade nines this year and i thought i would ask some of them if they wanted to come to hos party. anyways so how would i go about asking just a random grade nine for her phone number? someone just waling around in the hallway or in the library or w/e. I have one day to do this so i would appreciate some quick advice.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
URGENT party on sunday
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
talk to girls first and then slip in that youd like to get to know them better and a buddy is holding a party saturday, id like you to come. and etc.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
"wha the fvck are you wearing? that skirt is horrendous! haha"
say it with the right tone and she'll laugh.
jsut make a comment about something on her.
"cute outfit, did you get dressed in the dark? ha"
say it with the right tone and she'll laugh.
jsut make a comment about something on her.
"cute outfit, did you get dressed in the dark? ha"
sounds a littlte too close to a pick up line to me. And i could see myself getting slapped for saying that, even in a joking way. Most girls in my town are pretty self conscious about that kinda stuff. good post thoPatrick124 said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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u cud bump into her and then be like "oh excuse me (or 'excuse you' lol) ... hey don't i know you from somewhere? oh, i was thinking of someone else. but hey, my name is (name). whats yours?"
anything, man. quit whining with all this "how would i start talking to them wah wah wah" and just talk to em.
anything, man. quit whining with all this "how would i start talking to them wah wah wah" and just talk to em.
Hand out flyers. 1/3 of an A4 page is perfect. Print one out and make a couple of photocopies.
Dont' know how this works on a birthday party but it almost worked for my crew (well cept when they read what was on it they werent that pleased).
Dont' know how this works on a birthday party but it almost worked for my crew (well cept when they read what was on it they werent that pleased).