one of my best friends is having a party on saturday for his 17th birthday and i just realized that this is a good opportunity to ask chicks out to. anyways im in grade 11 and theres alto of hot grade nines this year and i thought i would ask some of them if they wanted to come to hos party. anyways so how would i go about asking just a random grade nine for her phone number? someone just waling around in the hallway or in the library or w/e. I have one day to do this so i would appreciate some quick advice.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
URGENT party on sunday
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dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
talk to girls first and then slip in that youd like to get to know them better and a buddy is holding a party saturday, id like you to come. and etc.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
"wha the fvck are you wearing? that skirt is horrendous! haha"
say it with the right tone and she'll laugh.
jsut make a comment about something on her.
"cute outfit, did you get dressed in the dark? ha"
say it with the right tone and she'll laugh.
jsut make a comment about something on her.
"cute outfit, did you get dressed in the dark? ha"
sounds a littlte too close to a pick up line to me. And i could see myself getting slapped for saying that, even in a joking way. Most girls in my town are pretty self conscious about that kinda stuff. good post thoPatrick124 said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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u cud bump into her and then be like "oh excuse me (or 'excuse you' lol) ... hey don't i know you from somewhere? oh, i was thinking of someone else. but hey, my name is (name). whats yours?"
anything, man. quit whining with all this "how would i start talking to them wah wah wah" and just talk to em.
anything, man. quit whining with all this "how would i start talking to them wah wah wah" and just talk to em.
Hand out flyers. 1/3 of an A4 page is perfect. Print one out and make a couple of photocopies.
Dont' know how this works on a birthday party but it almost worked for my crew (well cept when they read what was on it they werent that pleased).
Dont' know how this works on a birthday party but it almost worked for my crew (well cept when they read what was on it they werent that pleased).