one of my best friends is having a party on saturday for his 17th birthday and i just realized that this is a good opportunity to ask chicks out to. anyways im in grade 11 and theres alto of hot grade nines this year and i thought i would ask some of them if they wanted to come to hos party. anyways so how would i go about asking just a random grade nine for her phone number? someone just waling around in the hallway or in the library or w/e. I have one day to do this so i would appreciate some quick advice.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
URGENT party on sunday
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
talk to girls first and then slip in that youd like to get to know them better and a buddy is holding a party saturday, id like you to come. and etc.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
"wha the fvck are you wearing? that skirt is horrendous! haha"
say it with the right tone and she'll laugh.
jsut make a comment about something on her.
"cute outfit, did you get dressed in the dark? ha"
say it with the right tone and she'll laugh.
jsut make a comment about something on her.
"cute outfit, did you get dressed in the dark? ha"
sounds a littlte too close to a pick up line to me. And i could see myself getting slapped for saying that, even in a joking way. Most girls in my town are pretty self conscious about that kinda stuff. good post thoPatrick124 said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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u cud bump into her and then be like "oh excuse me (or 'excuse you' lol) ... hey don't i know you from somewhere? oh, i was thinking of someone else. but hey, my name is (name). whats yours?"
anything, man. quit whining with all this "how would i start talking to them wah wah wah" and just talk to em.
anything, man. quit whining with all this "how would i start talking to them wah wah wah" and just talk to em.
Hand out flyers. 1/3 of an A4 page is perfect. Print one out and make a couple of photocopies.
Dont' know how this works on a birthday party but it almost worked for my crew (well cept when they read what was on it they werent that pleased).
Dont' know how this works on a birthday party but it almost worked for my crew (well cept when they read what was on it they werent that pleased).