one of my best friends is having a party on saturday for his 17th birthday and i just realized that this is a good opportunity to ask chicks out to. anyways im in grade 11 and theres alto of hot grade nines this year and i thought i would ask some of them if they wanted to come to hos party. anyways so how would i go about asking just a random grade nine for her phone number? someone just waling around in the hallway or in the library or w/e. I have one day to do this so i would appreciate some quick advice.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
URGENT party on sunday
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
talk to girls first and then slip in that youd like to get to know them better and a buddy is holding a party saturday, id like you to come. and etc.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
"wha the fvck are you wearing? that skirt is horrendous! haha"
say it with the right tone and she'll laugh.
jsut make a comment about something on her.
"cute outfit, did you get dressed in the dark? ha"
say it with the right tone and she'll laugh.
jsut make a comment about something on her.
"cute outfit, did you get dressed in the dark? ha"
sounds a littlte too close to a pick up line to me. And i could see myself getting slapped for saying that, even in a joking way. Most girls in my town are pretty self conscious about that kinda stuff. good post thoPatrick124 said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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u cud bump into her and then be like "oh excuse me (or 'excuse you' lol) ... hey don't i know you from somewhere? oh, i was thinking of someone else. but hey, my name is (name). whats yours?"
anything, man. quit whining with all this "how would i start talking to them wah wah wah" and just talk to em.
anything, man. quit whining with all this "how would i start talking to them wah wah wah" and just talk to em.
Hand out flyers. 1/3 of an A4 page is perfect. Print one out and make a couple of photocopies.
Dont' know how this works on a birthday party but it almost worked for my crew (well cept when they read what was on it they werent that pleased).
Dont' know how this works on a birthday party but it almost worked for my crew (well cept when they read what was on it they werent that pleased).