"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I sent her text:

" Did you do well on math? Next time we meet I will show u how romantically math can be explained."

I got text back from her:
"The test was HARD! I did not even get to finish. But about the romantic thing,I have a boyfriend but I still wanna party together or something!"

How should I interpret this?

thanks all
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she wants to be your friend without telling you word for word "let's just be friends." don't do it, unless you sincerely want to be her friend too. if you do want to be just friends, then you can let her help you meet other girls aka her friends.
 
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From this and your last thread I can tell that you might be coming on a little too strong/ being obnoxious and getting put in the friends zone rather quickly. You're probably going straight for rapport and then to seduction. Skipping the first stage, attraction.
The sequence is: create attraction, then go for rapport, then seduce.
You can not skip the steps.
 
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