"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I sent her text:

" Did you do well on math? Next time we meet I will show u how romantically math can be explained."

I got text back from her:
"The test was HARD! I did not even get to finish. But about the romantic thing,I have a boyfriend but I still wanna party together or something!"

How should I interpret this?

thanks all
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she wants to be your friend without telling you word for word "let's just be friends." don't do it, unless you sincerely want to be her friend too. if you do want to be just friends, then you can let her help you meet other girls aka her friends.
 
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From this and your last thread I can tell that you might be coming on a little too strong/ being obnoxious and getting put in the friends zone rather quickly. You're probably going straight for rapport and then to seduction. Skipping the first stage, attraction.
The sequence is: create attraction, then go for rapport, then seduce.
You can not skip the steps.
 
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