"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dng

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I sent her text:

" Did you do well on math? Next time we meet I will show u how romantically math can be explained."

I got text back from her:
"The test was HARD! I did not even get to finish. But about the romantic thing,I have a boyfriend but I still wanna party together or something!"

How should I interpret this?

thanks all
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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K.Pez

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she wants to be your friend without telling you word for word "let's just be friends." don't do it, unless you sincerely want to be her friend too. if you do want to be just friends, then you can let her help you meet other girls aka her friends.
 

r0cky

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From this and your last thread I can tell that you might be coming on a little too strong/ being obnoxious and getting put in the friends zone rather quickly. You're probably going straight for rapport and then to seduction. Skipping the first stage, attraction.
The sequence is: create attraction, then go for rapport, then seduce.
You can not skip the steps.
 
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