"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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URGENT - how to make a girl forget about her ex

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by Pure Drive +
ok I changed my mind. I'm not even going to try with this girl. We're just going to stay friends and besides the whole getting out of the friend zone thing is up to her (quoteth Mr. Fingz).

I'm putting too much effort into this one girl. I'm just going to act normal and stuff and be myself. Even just thinking about acting for her is tiring....there is no way I am going to stress myself out like that in reality.
Actually you haven't put any effort into this girl. Giving up before the fight even begins? Thats not what Fingz meant about lettin her step it up. He meant it for after you've done your part.

I'm really surprised that you would dare give up on this... Somethings are worth fighting for and let me tell you from experience; this may just be one of those things.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pure Drive +

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Actually you haven't put any effort into this girl. Giving up before the fight even begins? Thats not what Fingz meant about lettin her step it up. He meant it for after you've done your part.

I'm really surprised that you would dare give up on this... Somethings are worth fighting for and let me tell you from experience; this may just be one of those things.
You are right my friend. I'm not going to like, suddenly shower her with attention. That's what I meant. However, I will once in a while make a conscious effort to initiate contact and stuff.

Also, her ex-boyfriend told me yesterday that she always talks about me and stuff and how he hates it when that happens. So I'm going to wait until she is over him and move in. what do you think? You have experience with this man!
 

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By the way, I really think she is worth fighting for like you said. I let her get away once, not again.

Please give me some of your experiences, PM if you prefer that. Thanks.
 
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