"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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URGENT - how to make a girl forget about her ex

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LikRetsam

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Originally posted by Pure Drive +
ok I changed my mind. I'm not even going to try with this girl. We're just going to stay friends and besides the whole getting out of the friend zone thing is up to her (quoteth Mr. Fingz).

I'm putting too much effort into this one girl. I'm just going to act normal and stuff and be myself. Even just thinking about acting for her is tiring....there is no way I am going to stress myself out like that in reality.
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Actually you haven't put any effort into this girl. Giving up before the fight even begins? Thats not what Fingz meant about lettin her step it up. He meant it for after you've done your part.

I'm really surprised that you would dare give up on this... Somethings are worth fighting for and let me tell you from experience; this may just be one of those things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Actually you haven't put any effort into this girl. Giving up before the fight even begins? Thats not what Fingz meant about lettin her step it up. He meant it for after you've done your part.

I'm really surprised that you would dare give up on this... Somethings are worth fighting for and let me tell you from experience; this may just be one of those things.
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You are right my friend. I'm not going to like, suddenly shower her with attention. That's what I meant. However, I will once in a while make a conscious effort to initiate contact and stuff.

Also, her ex-boyfriend told me yesterday that she always talks about me and stuff and how he hates it when that happens. So I'm going to wait until she is over him and move in. what do you think? You have experience with this man!
 
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By the way, I really think she is worth fighting for like you said. I let her get away once, not again.

Please give me some of your experiences, PM if you prefer that. Thanks.
 
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