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URGENT - how to make a girl forget about her ex

LikRetsam

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Originally posted by Pure Drive +
ok I changed my mind. I'm not even going to try with this girl. We're just going to stay friends and besides the whole getting out of the friend zone thing is up to her (quoteth Mr. Fingz).

I'm putting too much effort into this one girl. I'm just going to act normal and stuff and be myself. Even just thinking about acting for her is tiring....there is no way I am going to stress myself out like that in reality.
Actually you haven't put any effort into this girl. Giving up before the fight even begins? Thats not what Fingz meant about lettin her step it up. He meant it for after you've done your part.

I'm really surprised that you would dare give up on this... Somethings are worth fighting for and let me tell you from experience; this may just be one of those things.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Actually you haven't put any effort into this girl. Giving up before the fight even begins? Thats not what Fingz meant about lettin her step it up. He meant it for after you've done your part.

I'm really surprised that you would dare give up on this... Somethings are worth fighting for and let me tell you from experience; this may just be one of those things.
You are right my friend. I'm not going to like, suddenly shower her with attention. That's what I meant. However, I will once in a while make a conscious effort to initiate contact and stuff.

Also, her ex-boyfriend told me yesterday that she always talks about me and stuff and how he hates it when that happens. So I'm going to wait until she is over him and move in. what do you think? You have experience with this man!
 

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By the way, I really think she is worth fighting for like you said. I let her get away once, not again.

Please give me some of your experiences, PM if you prefer that. Thanks.
 
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