Urgent Help:

[tennisbuck12]

So some chick that broke up with me like a month ago, just wished me happy bday today. Another year older. I haven't spoken or said anything to her since then. No Contact challenge!

Should I respond with anything, if so what?

 

[Tictac]

It's not a bad thing to think that if she got in touch, she'd like you to ask her out.

What you do with that idea is your call

 

[tennisbuck12]

I did like her, but have been back on the scene for 2 weeks and I have 3-4 women on me now. I love that feeling and no pressure.

She will NEVER get ego validation from me again, you guys warned me on this and were right. i sh!t the bed on that one. Lesson learned.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I think a woman would get the most ego validation from seeing that you are still too upset by her to have a friendly conversation.

 

[tennisbuck12]

So what would you guys say to this:

So how would you respond to her bday wish? She said happy bday old man

 

[LiveYourDream]

Don't stoop to reply. Let her hamster spin forever, while you get on with your life!

Happy Birthday!

 

[amoka]

Respond to say "thank you" and nothing more.

 

[dude99]

So some chick that broke up with me like a month ago, just wished me happy bday today. Another year older. I haven't spoken or said anything to her since then. No Contact challenge!

Should I respond with anything, if so what?

No. There is no need to respond to history.

 

[RangerMIke]

What do you normally do when someone wishes you a happy birthday? Whatever that is do that, because it is who you are. If you intentionally don't respond to her because she broke up with you, then you are letting her dictate your behavior. If you don;t care that she is gone, then you are not going to act different. Bible_Belt is right

 

[badboyjmm]

Don't reply if you know you are vulnerable to reply once she start asking questions about you.

The fact that she's wishing you a happy birthday is in my opinion to get news from you.

 

[dude99]

I wouldn't reply. But if you do, do as amoka said a simple thank you then go ghost. She is trying to see id she can suck you in and feed her ego.

 

[AllDay85]

Don't reply

 

[GS750]

Say nothing. Silence speaks volumes.

 

[Yewki]

Respond to say "thank you" and nothing more.

This is the best response, extends common courtesy and shows you're not bitter. No need to create unnecessary friction. The exception is if she's actually a bad person and you truly want nothing to do with her, in which case she should have already been blocked.