"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Urgent dating help from Finland

asadali

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Hi, Everyone

I am writing this from Finland, in short these days I am dating a girl for the last 2 weeks. We have met almost 3,4 times and yesterday she was at my place for a dinner with me. Since than she sent me text messages that she had a wonderful time with me. Today she text me that she was thinking all the day about me and my kisses what we had yesterday. One thing to tell u guys that we still have no sex yet but as I said we were only kissing yesterday.

She also mentioned on the text that she wants more kisses like that, I asked her what make her thinking about me and she just answered that ''bcoz I m so hot''. I replied is that the only thing? she said '' of course there are other things also'' but she did not mention. My guess is she needs sex, which is fine to me.
My big question to ask you guys is that tell me how should I handle this girl, I mean I am a person who believes in true love and long better relationship. I fell in love very quickly and I trust people a lot. Based on my past relationships experience I am afraid that this girl also just want physical benefits. She seems fine and nice till now. So please tell me what should I do not to hurt myself in future? I have told her already during our first few dates that I don't just need to sleep with someone. Your suggestions and your tips would be highly appreciated.

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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JoeMarron

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You're playing the game backwards. Stop playing the role of the woman and let her think about love and relationships. Put all of that gushy love sh!t aside and fvck her silly. If after a few months she starts hinting at wanting to be exclusive with you and you actually like spending time with her besides sex then you can go ahead and consider making her your girlfriend.
 

abe0

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Lord...if you do not f#ck by the next time...I am shooting myself!!! " I am a person who believes in true love".....well, after being down that road...I am a person who believes in true lust!!! Enjoy her while you can....
Someone here has to talk to this guy really fast and save him. Abe
 

El Payaso

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Poor guy. You will soon learn the hard way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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