"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Urgent dating help from Finland

asadali

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Hi, Everyone

I am writing this from Finland, in short these days I am dating a girl for the last 2 weeks. We have met almost 3,4 times and yesterday she was at my place for a dinner with me. Since than she sent me text messages that she had a wonderful time with me. Today she text me that she was thinking all the day about me and my kisses what we had yesterday. One thing to tell u guys that we still have no sex yet but as I said we were only kissing yesterday.

She also mentioned on the text that she wants more kisses like that, I asked her what make her thinking about me and she just answered that ''bcoz I m so hot''. I replied is that the only thing? she said '' of course there are other things also'' but she did not mention. My guess is she needs sex, which is fine to me.
My big question to ask you guys is that tell me how should I handle this girl, I mean I am a person who believes in true love and long better relationship. I fell in love very quickly and I trust people a lot. Based on my past relationships experience I am afraid that this girl also just want physical benefits. She seems fine and nice till now. So please tell me what should I do not to hurt myself in future? I have told her already during our first few dates that I don't just need to sleep with someone. Your suggestions and your tips would be highly appreciated.

Thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JoeMarron

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You're playing the game backwards. Stop playing the role of the woman and let her think about love and relationships. Put all of that gushy love sh!t aside and fvck her silly. If after a few months she starts hinting at wanting to be exclusive with you and you actually like spending time with her besides sex then you can go ahead and consider making her your girlfriend.
 

abe0

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Lord...if you do not f#ck by the next time...I am shooting myself!!! " I am a person who believes in true love".....well, after being down that road...I am a person who believes in true lust!!! Enjoy her while you can....
Someone here has to talk to this guy really fast and save him. Abe
 

El Payaso

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Poor guy. You will soon learn the hard way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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