"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Urgent dating help from Finland

asadali

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Hi, Everyone

I am writing this from Finland, in short these days I am dating a girl for the last 2 weeks. We have met almost 3,4 times and yesterday she was at my place for a dinner with me. Since than she sent me text messages that she had a wonderful time with me. Today she text me that she was thinking all the day about me and my kisses what we had yesterday. One thing to tell u guys that we still have no sex yet but as I said we were only kissing yesterday.

She also mentioned on the text that she wants more kisses like that, I asked her what make her thinking about me and she just answered that ''bcoz I m so hot''. I replied is that the only thing? she said '' of course there are other things also'' but she did not mention. My guess is she needs sex, which is fine to me.
My big question to ask you guys is that tell me how should I handle this girl, I mean I am a person who believes in true love and long better relationship. I fell in love very quickly and I trust people a lot. Based on my past relationships experience I am afraid that this girl also just want physical benefits. She seems fine and nice till now. So please tell me what should I do not to hurt myself in future? I have told her already during our first few dates that I don't just need to sleep with someone. Your suggestions and your tips would be highly appreciated.

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JoeMarron

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You're playing the game backwards. Stop playing the role of the woman and let her think about love and relationships. Put all of that gushy love sh!t aside and fvck her silly. If after a few months she starts hinting at wanting to be exclusive with you and you actually like spending time with her besides sex then you can go ahead and consider making her your girlfriend.
 

abe0

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Lord...if you do not f#ck by the next time...I am shooting myself!!! " I am a person who believes in true love".....well, after being down that road...I am a person who believes in true lust!!! Enjoy her while you can....
Someone here has to talk to this guy really fast and save him. Abe
 

El Payaso

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Poor guy. You will soon learn the hard way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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