"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Urgent dating help from Finland

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Hi, Everyone

I am writing this from Finland, in short these days I am dating a girl for the last 2 weeks. We have met almost 3,4 times and yesterday she was at my place for a dinner with me. Since than she sent me text messages that she had a wonderful time with me. Today she text me that she was thinking all the day about me and my kisses what we had yesterday. One thing to tell u guys that we still have no sex yet but as I said we were only kissing yesterday.

She also mentioned on the text that she wants more kisses like that, I asked her what make her thinking about me and she just answered that ''bcoz I m so hot''. I replied is that the only thing? she said '' of course there are other things also'' but she did not mention. My guess is she needs sex, which is fine to me.
My big question to ask you guys is that tell me how should I handle this girl, I mean I am a person who believes in true love and long better relationship. I fell in love very quickly and I trust people a lot. Based on my past relationships experience I am afraid that this girl also just want physical benefits. She seems fine and nice till now. So please tell me what should I do not to hurt myself in future? I have told her already during our first few dates that I don't just need to sleep with someone. Your suggestions and your tips would be highly appreciated.

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're playing the game backwards. Stop playing the role of the woman and let her think about love and relationships. Put all of that gushy love sh!t aside and fvck her silly. If after a few months she starts hinting at wanting to be exclusive with you and you actually like spending time with her besides sex then you can go ahead and consider making her your girlfriend.
 
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Lord...if you do not f#ck by the next time...I am shooting myself!!! " I am a person who believes in true love".....well, after being down that road...I am a person who believes in true lust!!! Enjoy her while you can....
Someone here has to talk to this guy really fast and save him. Abe
 
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Poor guy. You will soon learn the hard way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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