"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you handle girls who have their defenses up and don't engage in word play. For instance girls who aren't receptive to ****y n funny and take almost everything way too literally.

For example:
Nice you seem to make a lot of money, that's great. One step closer to fulfilling my dream of being a stay at home dad one day ;)
Her - um who said you'd even father my kids? And we're not dating.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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uptight girls are to be treated like a new baseball glove.. oiled down and broken in
 

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Haha. Can you explain that please? Continue busting?
 

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a girl who doesnt think you're good looking enough for her would reply the way that one in your example did

what you said was actually pretty funny, and an interested girl would have played along
 

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Pook said once, (am I a bible scolhar or what?) women who bark at a gentleman will like the boot of an *******.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Real said:
a girl who doesnt think you're good looking enough for her would reply the way that one in your example did

what you said was actually pretty funny, and an interested girl would have played along
Exactly. Can't win em all. I think I'm a nice looking guy and several times I've received a similar response to a very decent C&F. Can you say..... Next?

I don't give a s*** what the reality is; I'm convinced every single time that happens it was her loss.
 

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So its solely a looks issue? I'm not saying I'm too attractive to be in disbelief but, there must OTHER underlying issues no? Sure some might be the looks aspect but what else could cause that type of behavior?
 

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cNfny said:
So its solely a looks issue? I'm not saying I'm too attractive to be in disbelief but, there must OTHER underlying issues no? Sure some might be the looks aspect but what else could cause that type of behavior?
Attraction, from a woman's perspective, is far more complicated than just looks. I've been shot down by women I felt we're clearly not in my league from a looks standpoint or even an overall, total package standpoint, but they do all have their own unique preferences. There are probably some women that don't even dig Brad Pitt, or George Clooney, etc and that's just the way it goes.

It sucks you can't have them all, but come join the club we all belong to.
 

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azanon said:
Attraction, from a woman's perspective, is far more complicated ...... Brad Pitt, or George Clooney

I've actually known quite a few that find Brad Pitt if not unattractive at least less that stellar. I think it's because he (particularly when younger) wasn't super masculine looking. On the other hand I have to be honest and tell ya that I've never met a single woman that wasn't nuts for Clooney.

Status + looks + money.
 

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cNfny said:
How do you handle girls who have their defenses up and don't engage in word play. For instance girls who aren't receptive to ****y n funny and take almost everything way too literally.

For example:
Nice you seem to make a lot of money, that's great. One step closer to fulfilling my dream of being a stay at home dad one day ;)
Her - um who said you'd even father my kids? And we're not dating.
This looks like it could've been a sh1t test.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That's either no sign of interest or no sense of humor. :whistle:
 
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