"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Uptight girls

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How do you handle girls who have their defenses up and don't engage in word play. For instance girls who aren't receptive to ****y n funny and take almost everything way too literally.

For example:
Nice you seem to make a lot of money, that's great. One step closer to fulfilling my dream of being a stay at home dad one day ;)
Her - um who said you'd even father my kids? And we're not dating.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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uptight girls are to be treated like a new baseball glove.. oiled down and broken in
 

cNfny

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Haha. Can you explain that please? Continue busting?
 

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a girl who doesnt think you're good looking enough for her would reply the way that one in your example did

what you said was actually pretty funny, and an interested girl would have played along
 

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Pook said once, (am I a bible scolhar or what?) women who bark at a gentleman will like the boot of an *******.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Real said:
a girl who doesnt think you're good looking enough for her would reply the way that one in your example did

what you said was actually pretty funny, and an interested girl would have played along
Exactly. Can't win em all. I think I'm a nice looking guy and several times I've received a similar response to a very decent C&F. Can you say..... Next?

I don't give a s*** what the reality is; I'm convinced every single time that happens it was her loss.
 

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So its solely a looks issue? I'm not saying I'm too attractive to be in disbelief but, there must OTHER underlying issues no? Sure some might be the looks aspect but what else could cause that type of behavior?
 

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cNfny said:
So its solely a looks issue? I'm not saying I'm too attractive to be in disbelief but, there must OTHER underlying issues no? Sure some might be the looks aspect but what else could cause that type of behavior?
Attraction, from a woman's perspective, is far more complicated than just looks. I've been shot down by women I felt we're clearly not in my league from a looks standpoint or even an overall, total package standpoint, but they do all have their own unique preferences. There are probably some women that don't even dig Brad Pitt, or George Clooney, etc and that's just the way it goes.

It sucks you can't have them all, but come join the club we all belong to.
 

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azanon said:
Attraction, from a woman's perspective, is far more complicated ...... Brad Pitt, or George Clooney

I've actually known quite a few that find Brad Pitt if not unattractive at least less that stellar. I think it's because he (particularly when younger) wasn't super masculine looking. On the other hand I have to be honest and tell ya that I've never met a single woman that wasn't nuts for Clooney.

Status + looks + money.
 

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cNfny said:
How do you handle girls who have their defenses up and don't engage in word play. For instance girls who aren't receptive to ****y n funny and take almost everything way too literally.

For example:
Nice you seem to make a lot of money, that's great. One step closer to fulfilling my dream of being a stay at home dad one day ;)
Her - um who said you'd even father my kids? And we're not dating.
This looks like it could've been a sh1t test.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's either no sign of interest or no sense of humor. :whistle:
 
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