"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Update on me being dumped. more opinions please

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Fingerling

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ok sorry to bore everyone with my issues lol but i have found that this site and the people on it to be so helpful and after the advice i've really moved on and come out my shell. after two weeks single i've already got jiggy with 2 girls and have got a few dates lined up. So a big thanks to everyone first off.

we'll i spoke to my exs brother a week ago (we are sort of friends) and said to tell my ex i have the digi cam lead an charger if she wants it. she has the camera.
so thursday i got a text from her saying i can have the camera so i replied with something blunt bout ill get a new one. she said she needs it for next week so if its ok she'll come get it.
me:"yeah thats fine give me a heads up and i'll put it in the letter box" (i have an outside letter box)
her:"will do hope you're ok x"

i didn't reply to this as i think shes after a bit of attention

what does anyone else read into this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Joe Stud

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Keep up the indifferent attitude, but drop the hostility. it doesnt help you whether you want her back, or want her gone. Just act like you are doing fine without her. And.. you are! You must decide if you want to bang her, or exclude her.
 
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thanks for the reply dude. i'll bear that in mind.
but i think i just want to exclude her, she had her chance so easier to move on.plus being single and this forum go too well lol :up:

thanks
 
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welldone on not replying, she is looking for you to be all upset to convince her she has made the right decision.

you sound like a positive guy going in the right direction, keep it up man and you'll be gold in no time
 
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Fingerling said:
i didn't reply to this as i think shes after a bit of attention

what does anyone else read into this?
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I read that she still has you on the hook and she knows it.



Cheers!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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romangod said:
I read that she still has you on the hook and she knows it.



Cheers!
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you think by me replying to her original text she still thinks she has me on the lead?
 
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Fingerling said:
you think by me replying to her original text she still thinks she has me on the lead?
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Yes. :yes:


Cheers!
 
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