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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Update on me being dumped. more opinions please

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ok sorry to bore everyone with my issues lol but i have found that this site and the people on it to be so helpful and after the advice i've really moved on and come out my shell. after two weeks single i've already got jiggy with 2 girls and have got a few dates lined up. So a big thanks to everyone first off.

we'll i spoke to my exs brother a week ago (we are sort of friends) and said to tell my ex i have the digi cam lead an charger if she wants it. she has the camera.
so thursday i got a text from her saying i can have the camera so i replied with something blunt bout ill get a new one. she said she needs it for next week so if its ok she'll come get it.
me:"yeah thats fine give me a heads up and i'll put it in the letter box" (i have an outside letter box)
her:"will do hope you're ok x"

i didn't reply to this as i think shes after a bit of attention

what does anyone else read into this?
 

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Keep up the indifferent attitude, but drop the hostility. it doesnt help you whether you want her back, or want her gone. Just act like you are doing fine without her. And.. you are! You must decide if you want to bang her, or exclude her.
 
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thanks for the reply dude. i'll bear that in mind.
but i think i just want to exclude her, she had her chance so easier to move on.plus being single and this forum go too well lol :up:

thanks
 
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welldone on not replying, she is looking for you to be all upset to convince her she has made the right decision.

you sound like a positive guy going in the right direction, keep it up man and you'll be gold in no time
 
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Fingerling said:
i didn't reply to this as i think shes after a bit of attention

what does anyone else read into this?
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I read that she still has you on the hook and she knows it.



Cheers!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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romangod said:
I read that she still has you on the hook and she knows it.



Cheers!
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you think by me replying to her original text she still thinks she has me on the lead?
 
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you think by me replying to her original text she still thinks she has me on the lead?
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Yes. :yes:


Cheers!
 
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