"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Update on me being dumped. more opinions please

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ok sorry to bore everyone with my issues lol but i have found that this site and the people on it to be so helpful and after the advice i've really moved on and come out my shell. after two weeks single i've already got jiggy with 2 girls and have got a few dates lined up. So a big thanks to everyone first off.

we'll i spoke to my exs brother a week ago (we are sort of friends) and said to tell my ex i have the digi cam lead an charger if she wants it. she has the camera.
so thursday i got a text from her saying i can have the camera so i replied with something blunt bout ill get a new one. she said she needs it for next week so if its ok she'll come get it.
me:"yeah thats fine give me a heads up and i'll put it in the letter box" (i have an outside letter box)
her:"will do hope you're ok x"

i didn't reply to this as i think shes after a bit of attention

what does anyone else read into this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Keep up the indifferent attitude, but drop the hostility. it doesnt help you whether you want her back, or want her gone. Just act like you are doing fine without her. And.. you are! You must decide if you want to bang her, or exclude her.
 
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thanks for the reply dude. i'll bear that in mind.
but i think i just want to exclude her, she had her chance so easier to move on.plus being single and this forum go too well lol :up:

thanks
 
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welldone on not replying, she is looking for you to be all upset to convince her she has made the right decision.

you sound like a positive guy going in the right direction, keep it up man and you'll be gold in no time
 
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Fingerling said:
i didn't reply to this as i think shes after a bit of attention

what does anyone else read into this?
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I read that she still has you on the hook and she knows it.



Cheers!
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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romangod said:
I read that she still has you on the hook and she knows it.



Cheers!
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you think by me replying to her original text she still thinks she has me on the lead?
 
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Fingerling said:
you think by me replying to her original text she still thinks she has me on the lead?
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Yes. :yes:


Cheers!
 
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