"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Update on girl from gym

tightsocks

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This chick ignored you and you still talk to her? You still engage her with casual conversation? You still show you're open to setting up another "date"? How could you be more available? This girl sees you as nothing. I would ignore her the minute she flaked on the date regardless of if she came up to me. You should have asked her to rack your weights and walked away or get you a towel.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sangheilios

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This chick ignored you and you still talk to her? You still engage her with casual conversation? You still show you're open to setting up another "date"? How could you be more available? This girl sees you as nothing. I would ignore her the minute she flaked on the date regardless of if she came up to me. You should have asked her to rack your weights and walked away or get you a towel.
I never agreed to or said I was open to another date with her, despite the fact that she was asking me what I was up to later.

I have no intention of asking her out but if I'm also not going to come across as bitter or angry, as that just makes me look bad for no reason, which I had discussed earlier on this thread. However, I know for sure she is weird and went out of her way to **** with me for no reason other than attention whoring but that doesn't mean I need to stoop down to her level.
 

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I never agreed to or said I was open to another date with her, despite the fact that she was asking me what I was up to later.

I have no intention of asking her out but if I'm also not going to come across as bitter or angry, as that just makes me look bad for no reason, which I had discussed earlier on this thread. However, I know for sure she is weird and went out of her way to **** with me for no reason other than attention whoring but that doesn't mean I need to stoop down to her level.
You're not coming across as bitter or angry by ignoring a women who flaked on you. You're coming across as high value. Someone who doesn't have time for games.
 

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The girl is irrelevant. Op doesn't need to do anything but come up with a challenging work out to reach his next physical peak. Why are people still talking about the girl? She's background noise. You don't run away from background noise. It's part of the environment.
LOL I'm already in really good shape, but the routine now is based on developing strength and power, where as from December through March it was more focused on building up endurance whilst maintaining strength.
 
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