"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Update on girl from gym

tightsocks

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This chick ignored you and you still talk to her? You still engage her with casual conversation? You still show you're open to setting up another "date"? How could you be more available? This girl sees you as nothing. I would ignore her the minute she flaked on the date regardless of if she came up to me. You should have asked her to rack your weights and walked away or get you a towel.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sangheilios

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This chick ignored you and you still talk to her? You still engage her with casual conversation? You still show you're open to setting up another "date"? How could you be more available? This girl sees you as nothing. I would ignore her the minute she flaked on the date regardless of if she came up to me. You should have asked her to rack your weights and walked away or get you a towel.
I never agreed to or said I was open to another date with her, despite the fact that she was asking me what I was up to later.

I have no intention of asking her out but if I'm also not going to come across as bitter or angry, as that just makes me look bad for no reason, which I had discussed earlier on this thread. However, I know for sure she is weird and went out of her way to **** with me for no reason other than attention whoring but that doesn't mean I need to stoop down to her level.
 

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I never agreed to or said I was open to another date with her, despite the fact that she was asking me what I was up to later.

I have no intention of asking her out but if I'm also not going to come across as bitter or angry, as that just makes me look bad for no reason, which I had discussed earlier on this thread. However, I know for sure she is weird and went out of her way to **** with me for no reason other than attention whoring but that doesn't mean I need to stoop down to her level.
You're not coming across as bitter or angry by ignoring a women who flaked on you. You're coming across as high value. Someone who doesn't have time for games.
 

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The girl is irrelevant. Op doesn't need to do anything but come up with a challenging work out to reach his next physical peak. Why are people still talking about the girl? She's background noise. You don't run away from background noise. It's part of the environment.
LOL I'm already in really good shape, but the routine now is based on developing strength and power, where as from December through March it was more focused on building up endurance whilst maintaining strength.
 
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