"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This johnny kid doesn't sound like an AFC from your story. Sounds like he's a dyck who knows how to play the game. I know people like that and I know that he will screw you in a second for this chick.

I'm not going to recommend trying to compete with him over the girl because that will screw both your chances with her. So let's put things into perspective:

-You know he will be all over this girl
-If you try and compete for her, she will sense this and probably get turned off by you both

Sounds to me like you have one choice... Just chill out and talk to all the other HBs including her. Don't treat her special because you want to hook up with her. If this guy really does follow these chicks around like you say he does, he will blow his opporitunity quickly.
 
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Originally posted by Lesson
Ow like I said, He definately has some natural skills... but he does a lot of AFC things like doesn't leave the girls alone, IMs them the same night of the party etc... But anyway, I think your right, I know Im going to screw my chances if I try and "compete" with him. OK thanks bro for the advise.


Would not going on the trip at all be a good idea? No Seriously... it is my brithday tomorrow and I could do better things then trying to land a chick with this little ****. ****, I think this girl is playing both of us.
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Do what you want to do... Don't do something you won't enjoy for a girl. If you would rather chill with a few of your best friends than going to this party, do it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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