Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This johnny kid doesn't sound like an AFC from your story. Sounds like he's a dyck who knows how to play the game. I know people like that and I know that he will screw you in a second for this chick.

I'm not going to recommend trying to compete with him over the girl because that will screw both your chances with her. So let's put things into perspective:

-You know he will be all over this girl
-If you try and compete for her, she will sense this and probably get turned off by you both

Sounds to me like you have one choice... Just chill out and talk to all the other HBs including her. Don't treat her special because you want to hook up with her. If this guy really does follow these chicks around like you say he does, he will blow his opporitunity quickly.
 

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Originally posted by Lesson
Ow like I said, He definately has some natural skills... but he does a lot of AFC things like doesn't leave the girls alone, IMs them the same night of the party etc... But anyway, I think your right, I know Im going to screw my chances if I try and "compete" with him. OK thanks bro for the advise.


Would not going on the trip at all be a good idea? No Seriously... it is my brithday tomorrow and I could do better things then trying to land a chick with this little ****. ****, I think this girl is playing both of us.
Do what you want to do... Don't do something you won't enjoy for a girl. If you would rather chill with a few of your best friends than going to this party, do it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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