"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Update, Need insight

Walking Anomaly

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Hey guys, Hows life??:)

This is an update on my previous thread... a link to it is pasted below. Just paste it into your address bar... Read it first.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=61790

Anyway, STILL NO ID!!! :p

And to tell you the truth, it makes me wonder why it has not come in the mail.

What do i do with this girl? haha...:rolleyes:

All i want is my stuff back and she seems to refuse to do so. I mean, it's not necessary to get my ID back, im not in dire need of it, but its mine and i would like it back.

I called her up about 3 weeks ago, and told her to send it back as soon as possible...but it still hasnt showed, which somehow doesnt surprise me...

Im pretty sure she knows my address so i doubt she sent it to the wrong house.

Shes probably holding on to it on purpose either just to spite me or just to get me to call again hahaha..........you women :rolleyes:

Anyone have some other insight into what might be the reason?

Much appreciated :)
Peace
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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gav

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she's using it for herself because she looks like a man too?

seriously, call her again. i'd be pissed off if someone had my id for 3weeks. even a day.
 

idiot_boyfriend

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Call again.
 

wcknightjr

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If this is a driver's licensce we're talkin about she's just gotta stick it in the mailbox and it will get sent to you, not that hard. If she hasn't sent it when you call her next, TELL (not ask) her you're coming by to pick it up. Don't let her feed you a line, just arrive at her house, and since you're already there, she'll be compelled to give it to you. No excuses, no games, done.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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