"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Update, Need insight

Walking Anomaly

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Hey guys, Hows life??:)

This is an update on my previous thread... a link to it is pasted below. Just paste it into your address bar... Read it first.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=61790

Anyway, STILL NO ID!!! :p

And to tell you the truth, it makes me wonder why it has not come in the mail.

What do i do with this girl? haha...:rolleyes:

All i want is my stuff back and she seems to refuse to do so. I mean, it's not necessary to get my ID back, im not in dire need of it, but its mine and i would like it back.

I called her up about 3 weeks ago, and told her to send it back as soon as possible...but it still hasnt showed, which somehow doesnt surprise me...

Im pretty sure she knows my address so i doubt she sent it to the wrong house.

Shes probably holding on to it on purpose either just to spite me or just to get me to call again hahaha..........you women :rolleyes:

Anyone have some other insight into what might be the reason?

Much appreciated :)
Peace
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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gav

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she's using it for herself because she looks like a man too?

seriously, call her again. i'd be pissed off if someone had my id for 3weeks. even a day.
 

idiot_boyfriend

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Call again.
 

wcknightjr

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If this is a driver's licensce we're talkin about she's just gotta stick it in the mailbox and it will get sent to you, not that hard. If she hasn't sent it when you call her next, TELL (not ask) her you're coming by to pick it up. Don't let her feed you a line, just arrive at her house, and since you're already there, she'll be compelled to give it to you. No excuses, no games, done.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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