"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey guys, Hows life??:)

This is an update on my previous thread... a link to it is pasted below. Just paste it into your address bar... Read it first.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=61790

Anyway, STILL NO ID!!! :p

And to tell you the truth, it makes me wonder why it has not come in the mail.

What do i do with this girl? haha...:rolleyes:

All i want is my stuff back and she seems to refuse to do so. I mean, it's not necessary to get my ID back, im not in dire need of it, but its mine and i would like it back.

I called her up about 3 weeks ago, and told her to send it back as soon as possible...but it still hasnt showed, which somehow doesnt surprise me...

Im pretty sure she knows my address so i doubt she sent it to the wrong house.

Shes probably holding on to it on purpose either just to spite me or just to get me to call again hahaha..........you women :rolleyes:

Anyone have some other insight into what might be the reason?

Much appreciated :)
Peace
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she's using it for herself because she looks like a man too?

seriously, call her again. i'd be pissed off if someone had my id for 3weeks. even a day.
 
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Call again.
 
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If this is a driver's licensce we're talkin about she's just gotta stick it in the mailbox and it will get sent to you, not that hard. If she hasn't sent it when you call her next, TELL (not ask) her you're coming by to pick it up. Don't let her feed you a line, just arrive at her house, and since you're already there, she'll be compelled to give it to you. No excuses, no games, done.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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