"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Up in the Air - Movie

Brosy

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I don't know if this has ever been discussed on here before but has anyone seen 'Up in the air"?

(Spoilers): Succesful guy loves his single career life going about his sh!t happy as can be but constantly being questioned by women about his 'abnormal' life priorities. So eventually he thinks ok, let's see what the deal is with normal society expectations. Gets oneitis, rocks up at her door and BAM she has a husband and kids, guy is burned.

Maybe I missed key messages in this movie, what I took from this was do what makes you happy not what fairytale society expects of you, rather refreshing for Hollywood I thought.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bokanovsky

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I don't know if that movie actually tries to make a point. It just tries to be ironic. The guy finally decides to settle down, yet the girl he wants is not available.
 

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he movie also shows the hypergamous side of the woman. she is married, has kids, a good career....and yet, get involved with a fellow male traveller! she is the real DJ, theAFC is none other than mR DJ himself, G Clooney!
a bit of a power trip for the girls as he crashes and burns from being ...up in the air
 

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So true, she's is the gamer there. Clooney was a happy man with goals before the ladies started f*!king with his head!
 
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