"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Up in the Air - Movie

Brosy

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I don't know if this has ever been discussed on here before but has anyone seen 'Up in the air"?

(Spoilers): Succesful guy loves his single career life going about his sh!t happy as can be but constantly being questioned by women about his 'abnormal' life priorities. So eventually he thinks ok, let's see what the deal is with normal society expectations. Gets oneitis, rocks up at her door and BAM she has a husband and kids, guy is burned.

Maybe I missed key messages in this movie, what I took from this was do what makes you happy not what fairytale society expects of you, rather refreshing for Hollywood I thought.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't know if that movie actually tries to make a point. It just tries to be ironic. The guy finally decides to settle down, yet the girl he wants is not available.
 

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he movie also shows the hypergamous side of the woman. she is married, has kids, a good career....and yet, get involved with a fellow male traveller! she is the real DJ, theAFC is none other than mR DJ himself, G Clooney!
a bit of a power trip for the girls as he crashes and burns from being ...up in the air
 

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So true, she's is the gamer there. Clooney was a happy man with goals before the ladies started f*!king with his head!
 
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