Unsure what she meant by this...Thoughts?

[BackInTheGame78]

Regarding plate in this thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index....from-plate-thinking-about-dumping-her.230865/

Been a weird 3 weeks since I posted this. I've been really busy as I'm working, working out and now enrolled in Computer Science online courses, so I've had little free time. She has been picking up extra shifts because she is going on 3 vacations in the next 3 months so she is trying to bank as much OT as possible. Texted her typically once every 2 or 3 days, almost always initiated by her...

Late last week I get the "I miss u" text from her and she says she wants to see me. I tell her that's cool and to let me know when she is available. She texts me a few days later and says she has some time Thursday but has to work that night, so we make plans. Basically grabbed a quick bite, and then hung out in the back of her SUV and made out, talked, etc...no sex, but I wasn't really expecting any due to time constraints(only had a few hours, I got off work late).

So she texts me about an hour after we left and says:

"Thank you BITG, I enjoyed seeing you and hope we can do it again soon."

Didn't respond and then texts me again about 20 minutes later:

"Sorry it's been a while. I'm happy with the way things are hope you are too!"

WTF does this even mean? Its soambiguous...it could either mean she was happy to see me again and wants things to continue as they have been(ie, us meeting and fvcking most of the time), or it could mean she is happy with how things are now seeing me every 3 weeks and not having sex with me. Or it could be in response to the whole "exclusivity" thing from 3 weeks ago, ie, she wants to continue dating and fvcking but not be exclusive, which is perfectly fine with me.

My initial thought was to send a response in the morning to the first text saying I enjoyed spending time with her, blah blah blah...and to ignore the second text unless she brings it up again.

Thoughts?

 

[marmel75]

Don't you hate when women say this kind of sh!t?

I don't know OP...this is a tricky situation you find yourself in. How long have you been seeing her and how often do you have sex?

 

[Desdinova]

Reply with nothing more than a smiley. That's what I do when I get a positive text I don't know how to respond to.

Don't over think this. She sent a positive message, so just go with it.

 

[om1xr]

It's a sh!t test, women always send hidden messages with their words and written words. the literal words don't mean sh!t the hidden content within what they say is what's important and that's why most guys say never judge by words judge by actions but those guys are either oblivious of the cover talk and powertalk that women are master at and only few men can actually see and comprehend.

back to your text, the hidden gem is that she is testing if you are going to want more and by wanting more you will invest more and maybe text more and set up more meeting and basically it's a power grab kind of play. Damn man women never me.

now you know what that text means you have two choices either send an "k" or reply with Desdinova suggestion by sending one emoji (I use this a lot and it's one of my favorite to pass texting sh!t tests) or ignore her text.

But one more the problem is not what a woman send or what sh!t test she give but the problem is how she made mindfvck yourself by only that text! but we are here to learn.

so keep doing what you are doing and I salute you for not initiating contact with plates. I never do except when I'm horny and want sex that night! nature is a *****

let us know what is the follow up.