so you haven't read the thread to answer your own question and your input here is to say you're responsible for the advice of three SS members you like, and to shoot down Tyte and myself. this isn't the behavior i expect from someone enlightened. why do you care so much about whether we think the advice came from you originally?
why not supply your definition of ego? why not provide relevant substance to the discussion? why not let your advice and relevance speak for itself?
I was just drunk posting. I have nothing relevant to say about ego.
If someone were to ask me about ego, my advice would just be “try not to make other people miserable” lol. That’s my only code of conduct. If I am a trainwreck, I at least try to stay in my own lane not be a burden to people.
I know a lot of people in real life that are not only train wrecks, but they pull everyone down with them. And karma always get them eventually.
That’s pretty much where I intuited the whole notion of leeching value as opposed to being of value.
I don’t just hold people to this standard, I also hold myself to this standard as well.
And I’ve noticed that it’s changed most of my social circles. Everyone I know is engaged in self improvement now. I have cousins that I molded that are real estate entrepreneurs now when they used to be dead beat drug dealers.
I’ve pretty much molded everyone around me to be successful in all areas of life based off of one simple principle.
Everyone that comes in contact with me will either become a person of value or be repelled by me.
When you hold yourself to a high standard, it’s hard to tolerate subpar people.
I’m not saying I am perfect though. I need to drink less.