Unrequited Love?

[TyTe`EyEz]

You are right. Guru came to me for advice long time ago. And spaz showed my post to people when I was @da dynamically. I was the truth before you guys even knew me. I shouldn’t put myself on the same level as them. I was already a legend on so suave since 2003.

So you're telling me that I could have trolling just YOU for being a joke for all of this time?

 

[stormrider]

So you're telling me that I could have trolling just YOU for being a joke for all of this time?

I telling you that the troll job is on you. The guys you respect....all got their principles from me. Lol. If that wasn’t the case, don’t you think they would have told you by now? The truth is, neither spaz or guru will speak on this. They both know I am the father of masculinity on sosuave. All of Your guru’s beautiful words. Where you think it came from young blood? lol.

 

[TyTe`EyEz]

I telling you that the troll job is on you. The guys you respect....all got their principles from me. Lol. If that wasn’t the case, don’t you think they would have told you by now? The truth is, neither spaz or guru will speak on this. They both know I am the father of masculinity on sosuave. All of Your guru’s beautiful words. Where you think it came from young blood? lol.

You all 3 speak based in theory. May as well be the same poster.

 

[stormrider]

You all 3 speak based in theory. May as well be the same poster.

If you think what I say is theory then it is evident now for all to see... that you have no experience.

Everything I have ever said from women being seducers to finding the right women in your wavelength through social circles is all based on real life experience. If you go against right life experience it could only mean you are a basement dwelling loser.

 

[TyTe`EyEz]

If you think what I say is theory then it is evident now for all to see... that you have no experience.

Everything I have ever said from women being seducers to finding the right women in your wavelength through social circles is all based on real life experience. If you go against right life experience it could only mean you are a basement dwelling loser lol.

Everything I have said about starting from the ground up means more. Wavelengths are future game, and you're talking to the wrong crowd.

Learn to talk to women. Then learn to hold a conversation. Then, the world is your oyster.

Why relegate yourself to a yoga circle?

 

[Marcosuve]

If I were you, I would let her go her own way. She is not for you in this world.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Guru’s version of ego is my version. He thought I was enlightened. His whole entire philosophy is based off of me as a natural value giver. You Underestimate me grasshopper. I don’t need to read the thread. It’s based off my frame.

so you haven't read the thread to answer your own question and your input here is to say you're responsible for the advice of three SS members you like, and to shoot down Tyte and myself. this isn't the behavior i expect from someone enlightened. why do you care so much about whether we think the advice came from you originally?

why not supply your definition of ego? why not provide relevant substance to the discussion? why not let your advice and relevance speak for itself?

 

[bcude]

This whole thread has turned into an example of what happens when EGOs clash. Just nothing out of substance comes out of it for others to learn. Who cares who taught whom as long as it's good content that help people.

 

[stormrider]

so you haven't read the thread to answer your own question and your input here is to say you're responsible for the advice of three SS members you like, and to shoot down Tyte and myself. this isn't the behavior i expect from someone enlightened. why do you care so much about whether we think the advice came from you originally?

why not supply your definition of ego? why not provide relevant substance to the discussion? why not let your advice and relevance speak for itself?

I was just drunk posting. I have nothing relevant to say about ego.

If someone were to ask me about ego, my advice would just be “try not to make other people miserable” lol. That’s my only code of conduct. If I am a trainwreck, I at least try to stay in my own lane not be a burden to people.

I know a lot of people in real life that are not only train wrecks, but they pull everyone down with them. And karma always get them eventually.

That’s pretty much where I intuited the whole notion of leeching value as opposed to being of value.

I don’t just hold people to this standard, I also hold myself to this standard as well.

And I’ve noticed that it’s changed most of my social circles. Everyone I know is engaged in self improvement now. I have cousins that I molded that are real estate entrepreneurs now when they used to be dead beat drug dealers.

I’ve pretty much molded everyone around me to be successful in all areas of life based off of one simple principle.


Everyone that comes in contact with me will either become a person of value or be repelled by me.

When you hold yourself to a high standard, it’s hard to tolerate subpar people.

I’m not saying I am perfect though. I need to drink less.

 

[Epic Days]

I’m going to inject and say none of you guys have anything to offer to the convo until @guru1000 tells us all what is EGO.

That’s right.

I am in this too. I have no horse in this race.

I also have my own version of ego.

This is no longer a two way race, it’s Between, Spaz and guru now.

I am just injecting myself to make it fair for guru1000.

Agreed. The rest is just minutia. Background noise.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

I was just drunk posting. I have nothing relevant to say about ego.

If someone were to ask me about ego, my advice would just be “try not to make other people miserable” lol. That’s my only code of conduct. If I am a trainwreck, I at least try to stay in my own lane not be a burden to people.

I know a lot of people in real life that are not only train wrecks, but they pull everyone down with them. And karma always get them eventually.

That’s pretty much where I intuited the whole notion of leeching value as opposed to being of value.

I don’t just hold people to this standard, I also hold myself to this standard as well.

And I’ve noticed that it’s changed most of my social circles. Everyone I know is engaged in self improvement now. I have cousins that I molded that are real estate entrepreneurs now when they used to be dead beat drug dealers.

I’ve pretty much molded everyone around me to be successful in all areas of life based off of one simple principle.


Everyone that comes in contact with me will either become a person of value or be repelled by me.

When you hold yourself to a high standard, it’s hard to tolerate subpar people.

I’m not saying I am perfect though. I need to drink less.

ha i never see being drunk as an excuse but i get it, no ones perfect. otherwise good post. i have to promise myself that this is the last time i go through one-itis. i feel like the advice is always the same and i keep forgetting it, it feels like the home stretch though.

 

[stormrider]

If you want to see drunk posting, look up my old name. There was a time when I only posted drunk. It got to the point where people were convinced I sold my account to someone else because of how retarded I sounded compared to sober me. I used to get into petty arguments about absolutely nothing for days, lol.

As for one itis, Are you sure it’s one itis and not neediness? Or maybe it’s the same thing. I haven’t experienced that since I was 18. But it was more like natural pair bonding where chemicals were released in my brain and there was nothing I could do about it. No amount of so suave was able to cure me of that intense chemical release.

But that was then. Nowadays It’s hard for me to look at a flawed human and be head over heels for them, lol. Everybody annoys me on some level eventually, even my best friends and closest family members.

I feel like I can live in a cave for the rest of my life and cut myself from all human contact and still not care. Ironically this is the state you need to be in to be able to handle emotional attachment to women.

I allow myself to connect with women because I am not afraid of disconnection.

It’s the people that are guarded that are actually most vulnerable to one itis. At some point someone will figure out their imprint and exploit it.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

If you want to see drunk posting, look up my old name. There was a time when I only posted drunk. It got to the point where people were convinced I sold my account to someone else because of how retarded I sounded compared to sober me. I used to get into petty arguments about absolutely nothing for days, lol.

As for one itis, Are you sure it’s one itis and not neediness? Or maybe it’s the same thing. I haven’t experienced that since I was 18. But it was more like natural pair bonding where chemicals were released in my brain and there was nothing I could do about it. No amount of so suave was able to cure me of that intense chemical release.

But that was then. Nowadays It’s hard for me to look at a flawed human and be head over heels for them, lol. Everybody annoys me on some level eventually, even my best friends and closest family members.

I feel like I can live in a cave for the rest of my life and cut myself from all human contact and still not care. Ironically this is the state you need to be in to be able to handle emotional attachment to women.

I allow myself to connect with women because I am not afraid of disconnection.

It’s the people that are guarded that are actually most vulnerable to one itis. At some point someone will figure out their blueprint and exploit it.

I think they're the same thing(one-itis and neediness). I'm normally the same way. Not afraid of disconnection and no one is up to my standards. Don't care if she leaves, attracting her is effortless because of that detachment. It's only when I start to neglect myself to compensate for her flaws rather than walking away that I get in trouble and eventually hit one-itis. It's a conscious choice that I forget I make. When in the weak state all women seem like perfect partners(me being needy). When I'm in my natural I'm completely care free and a woman needs to convince me for me to even think about an LTR.

There's good utility in a girl I vibe with but I neglect myself by exploiting that utility, and thus the universe rightfully takes it away. In my natural I leave a trail of broken hearts, and it's hardly my fault, I simply exist and enjoy myself.

 

[stormrider]

I think they're the same thing(one-itis and neediness). I'm normally the same way. Not afraid of disconnection and no one is up to my standards. Don't care if she leaves, attracting her is effortless because of that detachment. It's only when I start to neglect myself to compensate for her flaws rather than walking away that I get in trouble and eventually hit one-itis. It's a conscious choice that I forget I make. When in the weak state all women seem like perfect partners(me being needy). When I'm in my natural I'm completely care free and a woman needs to convince me for me to even think about an LTR.

There's good utility in a girl I vibe with but I neglect myself by exploiting that utility, and thus the universe rightfully takes it away. In my natural I leave a trail of broken hearts, and it's hardly my fault, I simply exist and enjoy myself.

When you neglect yourself to compensate for a woman’s flaws, don’t be surprised if everyone you come in contact with start treating you like sh1t.

Basically what you are doing is changing your own vibration to having low boundaries. And you are also failing to be masculine because you are not molding the woman.

You’re trading your self respect for her validation -which ironically will make her lose respect for you anyway.

Eventually it becomes a one sided relationship that is all about her. You’ve completely lost yourself in her. And when she leaves, you feel like you are losing a part of yourself.

This is the basis of one itis. It’s understandable because this is what society teaches. To lose yourself in another. While it may sound romantic, it misses the mark.

In a REAL relationship, you become MORE OF yourself, not less. Every part of you is appreciated by her. And one day you will wake up and intense pair bonding emotions will release themselves inside of you because you’ve set up the perfect environment for pair bonding to exist. This type of relationship is the perfect environment to experience the highest thoughts you’ve ever had about yourself - because someone else that you admire finally acknowledges what you’ve always known - that you are a great person worthy of being loved.

Of course you can also have this experience through self love. You don’t have to wait for her to show up. Self love also increases the likelihood that a woman (or many women) who admires you will show up to validate and confirm what you’ve always known about yourself.

 

[rando5495]

You are right. Guru came to me for advice long time ago. And spaz showed my post to people when I was @da dynamically. I was the truth before you guys even knew me. I shouldn’t put myself on the same level as them. I was already a legend on so suave since 2003.

Brags about posting on a forum for 20 years.

F.ucking sad act

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

When you neglect yourself to compensate for a woman’s flaws, don’t be surprised if everyone you come in contact with start treating you like sh1t.

Basically what you are doing is changing your own vibration to having low boundaries. And you are also failing to be masculine because you are not molding the woman.

You’re trading your self respect for her validation -which ironically will make her lose respect for you anyway.

Eventually it becomes a one sided relationship that is all about her. You’ve completely lost yourself in her. And when she leaves, you feel like you are losing a part of yourself.

This is the basis of one itis. It’s understandable because this is what society teaches. To lose yourself in another. While it may sound romantic, it misses the mark.

In a REAL relationship, you become MORE OF yourself, not less. Every part of you is appreciated by her. And one day you will wake up and intense pair bonding emotions will release themselves inside of you because you’ve set up the perfect environment for pair bonding to exist. This type of relationship is the perfect environment to experience the highest thoughts you’ve ever had about yourself - because someone else that you admire finally acknowledges what you’ve always known - that you are a great person worthy of being loved.

Of course you can also have this experience through self love. You don’t have to wait for her to show up. Self love also increases the likelihood that a woman (or many women) who admires you will show up to validate and confirm what you’ve always known about yourself.

it's that molding the woman that i need more practice with. it needs constant attention and the decision of when to cut the losses and bail(if she starts taking advantage of the situation and isn't listening) is entirely arbitrary. despite investing time and attention it's best to stay detached, like day trading. you can study and invest and watch the position all day and still lose money, and you have to be ok with that since it's part of the game, or else you'll never make it. it all comes back to owning my losses completely, no shame. that's the mindset that will keep me from repeating the same mistakes after all, since a calm mindfulness is the best head space to learn or make any decision in.

 

[rando5495]

it's that molding the woman that i need more practice with. it needs constant attention and the decision of when to cut the losses and bail(if she starts taking advantage of the situation and isn't listening) is entirely arbitrary. despite investing time and attention it's best to stay detached, like day trading. you can study and invest and watch the position all day and still lose money, and you have to be ok with that since it's part of the game, or else you'll never make it. it all comes back to owning my losses completely, no shame. that's the mindset that will keep me from repeating the same mistakes after all, since a calm mindfulness is the best head space to learn or make any decision in.

You recognize that Guru is a convicted felon for fraud? I'm being dead serious. Ask him yourself if you don't believe me. It cracks me up.

And stormrider... the less said the better.

Now then, the fact that they get such a rise out of you.... how does that compute?

Fascinating.

 

[rando5495]

Pure comedy gold in here

It is some funny sh1t.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

You recognize that Guru is a convicted felon for fraud? I'm being dead serious. Ask him yourself if you don't believe me. It cracks me up.

And stormrider... the less said the better.

Now then, the fact that they get such a rise out of you.... how does that compute?

Fascinating.

i don't see your point. there is no such thing as an ideal man and everyone's shiit stinks. it's a mistake to discount a person entirely because of their flaws.

do you have anything constructive to add to the thread? if you disagree or have better advice than them i would expect you to lay it out logically rather than attack their character(ad hominem).

 

[rando5495]

i don't see your point. there is no such thing as an ideal man and everyone's shiit stinks. it's a mistake to discount a person entirely because of their flaws.

do you have anything constructive to add to the thread? if you disagree or have better advice than them i would expect you to lay it out logically rather than attack their character(ad hominem).

That is quite possible one of the most stupid things I've ever heard.

A convicted felon fraud peddles a born again non-sense spirituality, and the fellow tells that people have flaws.

Your judgement is just plain awful. And that is what I'd be reflecting on real quick, if I were you.

"How is it that I relate to a convicted fraud?", I'd probably ask myself.