Senior Don Juan
- Jun 9, 2019
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I try to learn from all men.You're talking to a specific subset of the population.
The guys you want to hear from most, also probably spend the most time on sosuave.
See the correlation? It's a circle jerk.
You have to get out there and figure it out for yourself.
Most guys on here are either clueless, or they have too much invested in their persoñna to get out of grain. I always check the latter when I'm drunk.
But men come here when they've been divorce raped and some married men drop by to see how they can spice things up to avoid it, but you're right most are single guys trying to improve their game it seems. This is primarily a pick up forum but has slowly morphed into a men's support group. There's no shame in that. It's as much a circle jerk as any other forum.
You're assuming I don't feel fulfilled with my life, but as of late I do. Women are optional, a family is optional. It really doesn't matter to me if I die alone or with 20 kids. And there's nothing stopping you from starting a family. Fly to Asia and wife a woman that will treat you like a god if that's what you really want. The more I think about it the more a family as a primary objective seems like a crutch. It's the ultimate distraction from your own goals. The ultimate excuse.
I don't think self sufficiency and enjoying giving makes a person weak, quite the contrary.
Why do you feel a family will make you feel fulfilled? Won't it introduce a host of new problems into your life? Isn't it a thankless job? Why are you willing to enslave yourself for at least 20 years financially and with your time? If it's just some urge you can't explain isn't that an irrational cop out from challenges of your own life?