hi everyone, i'm sorry for the title, but i can't really think of a better one... what i mean is, have you ever noticed an irregularity on girls you attract? i'ma explain that: i can score a lot with 5, 6 and 8, whenever i want. but i find it much harder (sometimes almost impossible) to attract 4s and 7s (7-chicks are the hardest for me)... why is it this way? why can i attract a girl who's a 8 or a 6, but i fail with a 7?! is this just a case? i don't think so, 'cuz it has been happenin' a lotta times... share your experiences... has this ever happened to you?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
unregularity with girls (dunno how to name this)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
check_mate_kid_uk
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explain why you would even want to score with 4's you sicko
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This is like saying, "I have the power to crap out 5 dollar bills, 10 dollar bills, 20 dollar bills and 100 dollar bills, but not 1 dollar bills or 50 dollar bills! Please help me!
Maverick001
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Re: Re: unregularity with girls (dunno how to name this)
Jay-X, why are you concerned about the 4's and 7's when your gaming 8's? Feel like having a hamburger sometimes instead of a steak?
Don't sweat it. Keep working the 8's.
Cheers,
Mav
lol, that's funny.
Jay-X, why are you concerned about the 4's and 7's when your gaming 8's? Feel like having a hamburger sometimes instead of a steak?
Don't sweat it. Keep working the 8's.
Cheers,
Mav
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i'm sorry, i have to clarify this stuff currently, i'm in a ltr (4 months) with a really nice girl (higher than 8 for sure)... however, i noticed that, while 8s seem to look for my attention and they flirt with me, 7s do not at all and it looks like they consider me a ugly ass! i don't give a rat's flick about 7s, it's just curiosity
currently, i'm in a ltr (4 months) with a really nice girl (higher than 8 for sure)... however, i noticed that, while 8s seem to look for my attention and they flirt with me, 7s do not at all and it looks like they consider me a ugly ass! i don't give a rat's flick about 7s, it's just curiositythefonz
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there a lot of numbers flying around n' stuff
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You think that's bad? Click here. If you dare.
Life-Trainee
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Yeaa, i'm having problems with 7.3621s anybody know why?
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If you go to the link I provided above, there is a handy little calculator to help you figure it out, if you don't stab yourself in the eyeball with a pen first.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Life-Trainee
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So, no time with a girl grants infinite interest?
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I think that means that if you like a girl a lot, if you stay away from her she will just go into massive orgasmic convulsions and she'll never know why.
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Re: Re: unregularity with girls (dunno how to name this)
BTW, how can you get it that deliniated that you can say, "I can get 5s, 6s, and 8s, but not 4s and 7s"?? That alone sounds ridiculous.
Pretty much. If you can pull "8s" full-time, why would you BOTHER with the "7s"?
BTW, how can you get it that deliniated that you can say, "I can get 5s, 6s, and 8s, but not 4s and 7s"?? That alone sounds ridiculous.
Kaine
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One word:
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*cue sound of left testicle rupturing*
Anyone know where I can one of those HB meters?
Shatner: Spock... run, a, scan, on that, leggy, Quagdorian
Spock: *blip bloopy poop* Hmmm Quagdorian registers 7.3621s on the Shagometer Captain.
Shatner: O...K... Spock. You wing, while I, beam her up, from behind....
BAHAHAHAHA HAHAA HAHA Ha haa ha....
*cue sound of left testicle rupturing*
Anyone know where I can one of those HB meters?
Shatner: Spock... run, a, scan, on that, leggy, Quagdorian
Spock: *blip bloopy poop* Hmmm Quagdorian registers 7.3621s on the Shagometer Captain.
Shatner: O...K... Spock. You wing, while I, beam her up, from behind....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.