hi everyone, i'm sorry for the title, but i can't really think of a better one... what i mean is, have you ever noticed an irregularity on girls you attract? i'ma explain that: i can score a lot with 5, 6 and 8, whenever i want. but i find it much harder (sometimes almost impossible) to attract 4s and 7s (7-chicks are the hardest for me)... why is it this way? why can i attract a girl who's a 8 or a 6, but i fail with a 7?! is this just a case? i don't think so, 'cuz it has been happenin' a lotta times... share your experiences... has this ever happened to you?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
unregularity with girls (dunno how to name this)
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
check_mate_kid_uk
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explain why you would even want to score with 4's you sicko
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This is like saying, "I have the power to crap out 5 dollar bills, 10 dollar bills, 20 dollar bills and 100 dollar bills, but not 1 dollar bills or 50 dollar bills! Please help me!
Maverick001
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Re: Re: unregularity with girls (dunno how to name this)
Jay-X, why are you concerned about the 4's and 7's when your gaming 8's? Feel like having a hamburger sometimes instead of a steak?
Don't sweat it. Keep working the 8's.
Cheers,
Mav
lol, that's funny.
Jay-X, why are you concerned about the 4's and 7's when your gaming 8's? Feel like having a hamburger sometimes instead of a steak?
Don't sweat it. Keep working the 8's.
Cheers,
Mav
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i'm sorry, i have to clarify this stuff currently, i'm in a ltr (4 months) with a really nice girl (higher than 8 for sure)... however, i noticed that, while 8s seem to look for my attention and they flirt with me, 7s do not at all and it looks like they consider me a ugly ass! i don't give a rat's flick about 7s, it's just curiosity
currently, i'm in a ltr (4 months) with a really nice girl (higher than 8 for sure)... however, i noticed that, while 8s seem to look for my attention and they flirt with me, 7s do not at all and it looks like they consider me a ugly ass! i don't give a rat's flick about 7s, it's just curiositythefonz
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there a lot of numbers flying around n' stuff
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You think that's bad? Click here. If you dare.
Life-Trainee
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Yeaa, i'm having problems with 7.3621s anybody know why?
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If you go to the link I provided above, there is a handy little calculator to help you figure it out, if you don't stab yourself in the eyeball with a pen first.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Life-Trainee
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So, no time with a girl grants infinite interest?
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I think that means that if you like a girl a lot, if you stay away from her she will just go into massive orgasmic convulsions and she'll never know why.
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Re: Re: unregularity with girls (dunno how to name this)
BTW, how can you get it that deliniated that you can say, "I can get 5s, 6s, and 8s, but not 4s and 7s"?? That alone sounds ridiculous.
Pretty much. If you can pull "8s" full-time, why would you BOTHER with the "7s"?
BTW, how can you get it that deliniated that you can say, "I can get 5s, 6s, and 8s, but not 4s and 7s"?? That alone sounds ridiculous.
Kaine
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One word:
BAHAHAHAHA HAHAA HAHA Ha haa ha....
*cue sound of left testicle rupturing*
Anyone know where I can one of those HB meters?
Shatner: Spock... run, a, scan, on that, leggy, Quagdorian
Spock: *blip bloopy poop* Hmmm Quagdorian registers 7.3621s on the Shagometer Captain.
Shatner: O...K... Spock. You wing, while I, beam her up, from behind....
BAHAHAHAHA HAHAA HAHA Ha haa ha....
*cue sound of left testicle rupturing*
Anyone know where I can one of those HB meters?
Shatner: Spock... run, a, scan, on that, leggy, Quagdorian
Spock: *blip bloopy poop* Hmmm Quagdorian registers 7.3621s on the Shagometer Captain.
Shatner: O...K... Spock. You wing, while I, beam her up, from behind....
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.