MatureDJ
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Only if Christopher is a women's name...Let me guess the teacher is a women lolll
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Truth... anyone that is upset with the direction of their lives has negative emotions, regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, or race. The reason why people are overly concerned when MEN are upset is because when MEN are emotionally motivated to to do something sh!t happens. When women are upset... the put on pink pvssy hats and march... or do slvt walks, AKA they do NOTHING tangible, and will self sabotage anything they set out to do. Just look at the "MeToo" movement, actually started off as a good thing, bringing attention to sexual abuse. But because it's chicks running this, now they are eating their own, tossing everyone under the bus for meaningless bullsh!t, most of these men are other liberals who support women's causes... the latest Joe Biden, who is likely the best chance the Democrats have to defeat President Trump.I've seen the power of the patriarchy.
I know
what men
can do
when they're angry.
Wow, that's a hopelessly, hilariously misguided and bigoted statement to make. They don't have it easier than any other race. That's a much quoted and often not supported, type of comment. You have no idea how most white people live and/or how difficult they may have it.White people have it way easier than any other race. Boo hoo on them that they are offended that they can be studied like guinea pigs. It's about time IMO
I agreeWow, that's a hopelessly, hilariously misguided and bigoted statement to make. They don't have it easier than any other race. That's a much quoted and often not supported, type of comment. You have no idea how most white people live and/or how difficult they may have it.
Too bad so sad that Quantrell did such a bad job at burning the rats nest in 1863.Campus Reform the #1 Source for College News
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
you forgot the incest cases, I know a lot of people say this but never could bother to checkTruth... anyone that is upset with the direction of their lives has negative emotions, regardless of your gender, sexual orientation, or race. The reason why people are overly concerned when MEN are upset is because when MEN are emotionally motivated to to do something sh!t happens. When women are upset... the put on pink pvssy hats and march... or do slvt walks, AKA they do NOTHING tangible, and will self sabotage anything they set out to do. Just look at the "MeToo" movement, actually started off as a good thing, bringing attention to sexual abuse. But because it's chicks running this, now they are eating their own, tossing everyone under the bus for meaningless bullsh!t, most of these men are other liberals who support women's causes... the latest Joe Biden, who is likely the best chance the Democrats have to defeat President Trump.
When MEN are motivated, then governments change, Bolsheviks and Nazis take power, they fly planes into buildings, launch religious crusades.
This isn't 'patriarchy', it's testosterone, the hormone that causes men to go out and do something about their condition. Without this trait the human race would have died out eons ago.
All men are like this, the idea that it's White Men that are the problem is just absurd, but the reason why white men take the brunt of criticism in Western Cultures is because chicks know they can do NOTHING without men... and they need MEN to help them. In the US, they can use other races of men, other than white, to help them or shame white men into supporting them.
Having said that, who cares about this stupid course offered in the middle of no-where, in a State that is only known because of corn, good basketball, and the setting for the Wizard of Oz. If you happen to go to Kansas, then just don't take the course... unless you need an easy "A" as an elective... All you have to do is parrot back nonsense, get your "A" then flush when you are finished.
Pretty much every college town is “left-wing,” mostly because modern American conservatism is founded in anti-intellectualism. Exhibit A: The current POTUS has a fourth-grade vocabulary.KU is in Lawrence, which has a history of being left wing politically that goes back to before the civil war. Culturally, it is the opposite of the rest of Kansas.
I don't think anyone objects to being studied, it's just that we can guess the negative spin this class has on it. Pretty crappy to suggest that people should be offended solely based on their race and gender though.White people have it way easier than any other race. Boo hoo on them that they are offended that they can be studied like guinea pigs. It's about time IMO
I was a young aerospace engineer then, dodging the post-Cold-War defense layoffs, and this character was my hero!All just a little bit of history repeating...Remember the movie Falling Down?
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.