"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Slick101

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I met a Colombian,Spanish and Greek (HB 8.5) with her friend....

It was hard to open I had to open them twice In Diff Locations...

I tell her I love going to this Club and she's like me 2!!! VERY EXCITEDLY...

This was about 30 min of conversation with her and her friend... I was with 3 people...

She tells me she wants to go ... and I get her number.. she types it in quick and tells me to call her.. when I go...

However, I talk to her for another 30 min (rapport Neg, teases LOL)...

I depart and I call her in 2 days to meet up with me... She complies calls me non stop askin me where I am... I meet up with her ,... 3 friends and Us 3 Guys...

thing is I dont go to this school, I juss live a block away and Im der pickin up chix... I told her I dont go der...

My question is... Can I date a girl that lives on campus?...

Whats your advices for my next step...

P.s she wans to go to the club next week.... But I wanna hang out with her earlier and Kiss close

Advice comments appreciated Guys

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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don't push things. if she wants to meet up next weekend, that sounds like a perfectly decent time to meet. why would you feel pressure to go out any sooner?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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