"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Slick101

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I met a Colombian,Spanish and Greek (HB 8.5) with her friend....

It was hard to open I had to open them twice In Diff Locations...

I tell her I love going to this Club and she's like me 2!!! VERY EXCITEDLY...

This was about 30 min of conversation with her and her friend... I was with 3 people...

She tells me she wants to go ... and I get her number.. she types it in quick and tells me to call her.. when I go...

However, I talk to her for another 30 min (rapport Neg, teases LOL)...

I depart and I call her in 2 days to meet up with me... She complies calls me non stop askin me where I am... I meet up with her ,... 3 friends and Us 3 Guys...

thing is I dont go to this school, I juss live a block away and Im der pickin up chix... I told her I dont go der...

My question is... Can I date a girl that lives on campus?...

Whats your advices for my next step...

P.s she wans to go to the club next week.... But I wanna hang out with her earlier and Kiss close

Advice comments appreciated Guys

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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don't push things. if she wants to meet up next weekend, that sounds like a perfectly decent time to meet. why would you feel pressure to go out any sooner?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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