"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Slick101

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I met a Colombian,Spanish and Greek (HB 8.5) with her friend....

It was hard to open I had to open them twice In Diff Locations...

I tell her I love going to this Club and she's like me 2!!! VERY EXCITEDLY...

This was about 30 min of conversation with her and her friend... I was with 3 people...

She tells me she wants to go ... and I get her number.. she types it in quick and tells me to call her.. when I go...

However, I talk to her for another 30 min (rapport Neg, teases LOL)...

I depart and I call her in 2 days to meet up with me... She complies calls me non stop askin me where I am... I meet up with her ,... 3 friends and Us 3 Guys...

thing is I dont go to this school, I juss live a block away and Im der pickin up chix... I told her I dont go der...

My question is... Can I date a girl that lives on campus?...

Whats your advices for my next step...

P.s she wans to go to the club next week.... But I wanna hang out with her earlier and Kiss close

Advice comments appreciated Guys

Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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don't push things. if she wants to meet up next weekend, that sounds like a perfectly decent time to meet. why would you feel pressure to go out any sooner?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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