"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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unique job that lets me meet girls, now what?

ohiobohio518

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i have a campus job thats basically like a taxi service at my state university. our shifts are 6 to 7 hours at night, and we drive with a partner sitting in the passenger seat and we both get paid. what's awesome about this is that i am forced to meet new girls and spend 7 hours with them alone in a car, the first time i even meet them.

now i think this is different than other form of game because if you screw up in the beginning, etc you are forced to stay with this person for the next 7 hours and it will be awkward as hell. if the girl is normal i usually have no problems keeping a lively conversation for 7 hours straight, but this poses a friend zone danger. how should i tweak my game so to take advantage of this opportunity, while mitigating the risks since im stuck with this chick for the entire night?

ive heard horror stories from girls who ive driven with where a guy made a move on her early in the night and she wanted to kill herself until the end of the shift, or something to that degree. or that a creepy guy made her miserable the entire night. i'm not socially retarded so i would notice when she's uncomfortable, but still, maybe this isnt the right place for picking up chicks? what are all your thoughts?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You can't play safety sh!t brother.. What you can do is feel compfortable if it ever hits the fan.. Be cool about it.. Tell the girl, she'd make a nice friend.. Feel compfortable..
 

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I'd recommend just getting to know them first. If they seem chill and relaxed, then maybe open up a bit more. Just play it cool and be yourself.
 
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