"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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unique job that lets me meet girls, now what?

ohiobohio518

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i have a campus job thats basically like a taxi service at my state university. our shifts are 6 to 7 hours at night, and we drive with a partner sitting in the passenger seat and we both get paid. what's awesome about this is that i am forced to meet new girls and spend 7 hours with them alone in a car, the first time i even meet them.

now i think this is different than other form of game because if you screw up in the beginning, etc you are forced to stay with this person for the next 7 hours and it will be awkward as hell. if the girl is normal i usually have no problems keeping a lively conversation for 7 hours straight, but this poses a friend zone danger. how should i tweak my game so to take advantage of this opportunity, while mitigating the risks since im stuck with this chick for the entire night?

ive heard horror stories from girls who ive driven with where a guy made a move on her early in the night and she wanted to kill herself until the end of the shift, or something to that degree. or that a creepy guy made her miserable the entire night. i'm not socially retarded so i would notice when she's uncomfortable, but still, maybe this isnt the right place for picking up chicks? what are all your thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You can't play safety sh!t brother.. What you can do is feel compfortable if it ever hits the fan.. Be cool about it.. Tell the girl, she'd make a nice friend.. Feel compfortable..
 

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I'd recommend just getting to know them first. If they seem chill and relaxed, then maybe open up a bit more. Just play it cool and be yourself.
 
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