Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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unique job that lets me meet girls, now what?

ohiobohio518

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i have a campus job thats basically like a taxi service at my state university. our shifts are 6 to 7 hours at night, and we drive with a partner sitting in the passenger seat and we both get paid. what's awesome about this is that i am forced to meet new girls and spend 7 hours with them alone in a car, the first time i even meet them.

now i think this is different than other form of game because if you screw up in the beginning, etc you are forced to stay with this person for the next 7 hours and it will be awkward as hell. if the girl is normal i usually have no problems keeping a lively conversation for 7 hours straight, but this poses a friend zone danger. how should i tweak my game so to take advantage of this opportunity, while mitigating the risks since im stuck with this chick for the entire night?

ive heard horror stories from girls who ive driven with where a guy made a move on her early in the night and she wanted to kill herself until the end of the shift, or something to that degree. or that a creepy guy made her miserable the entire night. i'm not socially retarded so i would notice when she's uncomfortable, but still, maybe this isnt the right place for picking up chicks? what are all your thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mr. Wolf

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You can't play safety sh!t brother.. What you can do is feel compfortable if it ever hits the fan.. Be cool about it.. Tell the girl, she'd make a nice friend.. Feel compfortable..
 

Kidfabulous

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I'd recommend just getting to know them first. If they seem chill and relaxed, then maybe open up a bit more. Just play it cool and be yourself.
 
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