"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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unique job that lets me meet girls, now what?

ohiobohio518

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i have a campus job thats basically like a taxi service at my state university. our shifts are 6 to 7 hours at night, and we drive with a partner sitting in the passenger seat and we both get paid. what's awesome about this is that i am forced to meet new girls and spend 7 hours with them alone in a car, the first time i even meet them.

now i think this is different than other form of game because if you screw up in the beginning, etc you are forced to stay with this person for the next 7 hours and it will be awkward as hell. if the girl is normal i usually have no problems keeping a lively conversation for 7 hours straight, but this poses a friend zone danger. how should i tweak my game so to take advantage of this opportunity, while mitigating the risks since im stuck with this chick for the entire night?

ive heard horror stories from girls who ive driven with where a guy made a move on her early in the night and she wanted to kill herself until the end of the shift, or something to that degree. or that a creepy guy made her miserable the entire night. i'm not socially retarded so i would notice when she's uncomfortable, but still, maybe this isnt the right place for picking up chicks? what are all your thoughts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mr. Wolf

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You can't play safety sh!t brother.. What you can do is feel compfortable if it ever hits the fan.. Be cool about it.. Tell the girl, she'd make a nice friend.. Feel compfortable..
 

Kidfabulous

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I'd recommend just getting to know them first. If they seem chill and relaxed, then maybe open up a bit more. Just play it cool and be yourself.
 
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