"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Unique Gift Giving Situation

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Gentlemen,
During the course of my regular work, I am constantly given gift cards to womens' clothing store. These are stores that have nothing I want or need. Since I get these through my job, I can't sell them either.
My questions is how do I go about given them to girls I am seeing without looking like a total AFC trying to buy their affection. As of right now I am sitting on about $2000.00 worth of gift cards and with my performance so far this year, I should have another $500 by the end of the fiscal quarter.
What do you guys think I should do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Give them to your family. I'm sure you have SOME women in your family, yes?

Why can't you sell them?
 
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The gift cards not for resale. That is a very strict corporate policy.
You think i should give $2000 worth of gift cards to my teenage sisters?
 
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Prime said:
The gift cards not for resale. That is a very strict corporate policy.
I do plenty of my mother and my sisters already.
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Do you have any Aunts?

I would give them to family because they make the most difference. You give them to some girl you barely know and it changes the whole relationship between you two. Soon she would be expecting gifts on a regular basis. Fvck that. At least family appreciates the gesture.
 
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Alle_Gory said:
Do you have any Aunts?

I would give them to family because they make the most difference. You give them to some girl you barely know and it changes the whole relationship between you two. Soon she would be expecting gifts on a regular basis. Fvck that. At least family appreciates the gesture.
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No Aunts. You make a valid point. That's why I have been sitting on them for so long.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Buy a sexy dress/lingerie for a woman you're seeing and tell her to put it on for a date or model it for you.
 
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Chickfight said:
Buy a sexy dress/lingerie for a woman you're seeing and tell her to put it on for a date or model it for you.
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Thanks, but thats only $200 out of 2k.
 
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Thanks, but thats only $200 out of 2k.
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Maybe you can donate them to a family / person that you think would make good use of these gift cards. Right now, those cards are doing nothing for anyone. Can't use them, can't get the money off them. It's a shame.
 
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