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Unique Gift Giving Situation

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Gentlemen,
During the course of my regular work, I am constantly given gift cards to womens' clothing store. These are stores that have nothing I want or need. Since I get these through my job, I can't sell them either.
My questions is how do I go about given them to girls I am seeing without looking like a total AFC trying to buy their affection. As of right now I am sitting on about $2000.00 worth of gift cards and with my performance so far this year, I should have another $500 by the end of the fiscal quarter.
What do you guys think I should do?
 

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Alle_Gory

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Give them to your family. I'm sure you have SOME women in your family, yes?

Why can't you sell them?
 

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The gift cards not for resale. That is a very strict corporate policy.
You think i should give $2000 worth of gift cards to my teenage sisters?
 

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Prime said:
The gift cards not for resale. That is a very strict corporate policy.
I do plenty of my mother and my sisters already.
Do you have any Aunts?

I would give them to family because they make the most difference. You give them to some girl you barely know and it changes the whole relationship between you two. Soon she would be expecting gifts on a regular basis. Fvck that. At least family appreciates the gesture.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Do you have any Aunts?

I would give them to family because they make the most difference. You give them to some girl you barely know and it changes the whole relationship between you two. Soon she would be expecting gifts on a regular basis. Fvck that. At least family appreciates the gesture.
No Aunts. You make a valid point. That's why I have been sitting on them for so long.
 

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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Buy a sexy dress/lingerie for a woman you're seeing and tell her to put it on for a date or model it for you.
 

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Chickfight said:
Buy a sexy dress/lingerie for a woman you're seeing and tell her to put it on for a date or model it for you.
Thanks, but thats only $200 out of 2k.
 

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Prime said:
Thanks, but thats only $200 out of 2k.
Maybe you can donate them to a family / person that you think would make good use of these gift cards. Right now, those cards are doing nothing for anyone. Can't use them, can't get the money off them. It's a shame.
 
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