"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok...don't know where this came from or why the fck I'm feeling like this. Quick summary around Nov... me and a girl I have known for 5 years start meeting up and hooking up. She is married with 3 kids... uses the love word often. Blames husband for their marriage ending. She ends up getting caught via iCloud. We sort of cut contact but her friends keep reaching out to me and informing me of how she's doing. We both set up email accounts and communicate until I had enough and ghost her. My reasons for ghosting are 1) she admits to cheating on her husband 5 years earlier and blames him. 2) she married the guy after 3 months of dating 3) she has 3 kids... 4) she was very needy.

Anyway I stopped contact and my buddy who knew about the affair wanted to meet at a restaurant close to where she lived. I actually avoided going out because of the chance she is out. He texts me and says I should be glad I ghosted her. She's out with no husband and some new guy is lurking around her. I laughed at first but it felt like a kick in the gut. Why the hell do I feel that!? I ran from this cluster !?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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greatsnake said:
It's your ego
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lol!!! I know.... immediately after I posted this my buddy got back to me and said she came over and talked with him. Asked how i was and told him she is divorced and today was the day... I need some help avoiding a future catastrophe. This girl is a 9-10..... has 3 kids and now I keep hearing about how good she looked.... again my ego is pushing me back to places I should avoid.
 
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Machine10033 said:
lol!!! I know.... immediately after I posted this my buddy got back to me and said she came over and talked with him. Asked how i was and told him she is divorced and today was the day... I need some help avoiding a future catastrophe. This girl is a 9-10..... has 3 kids and now I keep hearing about how good she looked.... again my ego is pushing me back to places I should avoid.
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Keep your ego in check and spin plates.
 
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greatsnake said:
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+1

You got attached to a *** dumpster who cheats on her husband and father of their children. A significant amount of women disgust me. If this was the middle east, she would be taken out, shot and pissed on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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