Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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is it wrong to say to a girl that you couldnt get ur mind off her the whole day. (a girl that u want to let know that u like her)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That might show that you are desperate. And remember what comes easy goes easy. So don't show too much interest at once. Read the bible.:D
 

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If you're going for the creepy-stalker approach, that is an excellent thing to say.
 

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Somebody shoot me.
 

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If a girl couldn't get her mind off me all day, I'd wonder if she had anything better to do but mope around daydreaming. That might be cute to some AFC's out there, but in the reverse situation, girls do not want to think that the guys have no lives outside of them. By saying that you couldn't get your mind off her all day shows that you had nothing better to think about besides her and makes you seem desperate. Cut the mushy crap since you probably weren't doing it anyways.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If that is a serious question, my reply would be read or re-read the DJ Bible.

That is one of the most AFC questions I've heard in a while.
 

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Dude, that seriously will get you nowhere. If you were honestly thinking about her all day, I'd keep it to myself. Read over the Bible.

Girls give off this impression that they want a guy that thinks about them all the time, that's sweet, and caring but I think that's bull****. They want a guy with a life. One with ambitions and that makes their life interesting. Telling a girl that will only lower her IL of you. On a side note, how interested is this girl in you anyways?
 
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Oneitis. Oneitis. Oneitis. You need to get rid of your oneitis and start thinking of other things, at least other girls.
 

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**** her im done with her shes not worth all the trouble..she doesnt talk on the phone - one word answers.. **** this **** ill get a new ****
 

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Originally posted by CoRVeTTe6699
is it wrong to say to a girl that you couldnt get ur mind off her the whole day. (a girl that u want to let know that u like her)

Um.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by CoRVeTTe6699
is it wrong to say to a girl that you couldnt get ur mind off her the whole day. (a girl that u want to let know that u like her)
yes, if thats why u did it, no if your teasing her, eg, she asks what you are up to, thinking of you (it depends on the context and is a bad example), but if you do it teasingly it comes off well
 
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