“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Understanding Eye Contact

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How the hell does one use eye contact as an IOI?

I catch women staring at me, but when I look back at them, they just keep staring. When they do break eye contact, its never the down away type, its always straight to the side. But its normally quite lengthy, 2-3 seconds more often then not. Like they are trying to intimidate me.

Sometimes when I spot a bird at a distance, she catches me looking. Again, they stare at me like a deer in headlights, but then straight to the side, or sometimes down. Again, hard stare.

Now my macking skills are not bad. Got no problems aproaching women. Just hoping to better understand interest level without them flashing a smile or that quick look away like when you just caught them eyeing you out and they know it.

What are your thoughts
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Have you ever heard of the *fvck me* look. This is that look. Married women with boyfriends often do it to guys they are very much attracted to. It's the longer deep intense stare that generates arousal.

In Sociology, it is referred to as the copulatory gaze. The gaze that takes place before two animals have sex.
 
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are you saying that you will be in some place, and a girl you don't know and never talked to or approached will gives you these looks, or girls you know?
 
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I never understood eye contact either. Perhaps i'm too conservative, but i always catch myself feeling self conscious about a female thinking i'm a serial killer, for giving her sexual eye contact!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Have you ever heard of the *fvck me* look. This is that look. Married women with boyfriends often do it to guys they are very much attracted to. It's the longer deep intense stare that generates arousal.

In Sociology, it is referred to as the copulatory gaze. The gaze that takes place before two animals have sex.
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LOL, im familiar with that look... But eye contact is too broad... I get a Sh!t load of eye contact on the train but i dont think much of it.. i just see it as a "i think your attractive" look.
 
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Originally posted by FBA808
are you saying that you will be in some place, and a girl you don't know and never talked to or approached will gives you these looks, or girls you know?
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Women I dont know
 
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Hmmm yes I am just trying to work out eyecontact as well. I'm just a beginner to the whole DJ style but I like what I see here. I always use to look away but now I know to hold for a bit and smile.

I tried this yesterday as I walked past a chick that was in my area. She looked back but I didn't really get a smile I just got a look back she looked kind of shocked and shy.
 
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Originally posted by AgonyUncle
Women I dont know
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when you've had eye contact for say 2 seconds, do you smile at them or just wait for them to look away?
 
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I wait for them to look away. Unless they really ugly, in which case, move along turd
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i wiggle my eyebrows and smirk, then hope the boyfriend doesnt beat the crap out of me.
 
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I usually walk around with Gunwitch method Eye contact, just undressing them with my eyes, if i find that they are holding Eye contact for more than 5 seconds then I take it as a AI. Also if I catch them trying to look from the corner of there eyes funny thing is they act like you can't see them looking. I don't really worry much about eye contact, when the interaction is interesting I keep eye contact and if I want to do a slight IOD I kinda break eye contact for awhile. Sometimes I don't even crack a smile it just kinda says it non verbally that I'm a safe guy, not exactly sure.
 
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try this guys..when talking to a girl next time- look down, then slowly blink as you look back up at her-now slightly squint your eyes, look at her lips ,scan her face,look up at her then look down,then slowly blink as you look back up at her as you are talking to her.Some may say that this signal submissiveness,
but in actuality is signals a strong attraction.
notice how you feel when you do this
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