Understand AFC and Need Advice

[werdmaster]

So anyway I met this girl and I talked to her online and ****. I used some sexual comments because she seemed to respond well to them. Well, long story, short. My friends jokingly says "why doint u forget abotu him and come with me."
Shr goes" Yeah he kinda fruity. ok"
Now I have no idea if she was kidding or something. But I presume I went overboard with sexual comments. SO im gonna tone that sh*t down. But I cant get her off my mind . I finally understand teh AFC state of mind.
Basically I need soem advice from you guys on two things:
How do I resist the AFC feelings?
How do I get her to think I'm not weird?

 

[Evil-Rom]

Originally posted by werdmaster
How do I resist the AFC feelings?
How do I get her to think I'm not weird?

I can answer both of those questions in 3 words.

"Read the Bible."

 

[werdmaster]

Yeah turns out that my friend was joking with me. Its a good thign though, cuz I now know about that crappy AFC stuff. Never gonna do that again.

 

[Mikelo2k]

How do I resist the AFC feelings?

Just do it. Think about something else, occupy yourself (ex. video games, NOT masturbation o_0), FIND OTHER PROSPECTS, etc... several ways dude.

How do I get her to think I'm not weird?

Does it really matter? If she thinks you're weird then thats her problem. She has to prove herself to you, not the other way around.

And if you are acting 'WEIRD' on purpose, then maybe uhh... stop acting weird? :/



Mikelo2k

 

[JSH]

Originally posted by werdmaster
So anyway I met this girl and I talked to her online and ****. I used some sexual comments because she seemed to respond well to them. Well, long story, short. My friends jokingly says "why doint u forget abotu him and come with me."
Shr goes" Yeah he kinda fruity. ok"
Now I have no idea if she was kidding or something. But I presume I went overboard with sexual comments. SO im gonna tone that sh*t down. But I cant get her off my mind . I finally understand teh AFC state of mind.
Basically I need soem advice from you guys on two things:
How do I resist the AFC feelings?
How do I get her to think I'm not weird?

well i would say read the Bible . Get her to think your not wierd by not caring and weird is good - weird = individuality and charisma. She is going to remember you. Do you care if she thinks you are weird? - Don't. Who cares?

Resist the AFC feeling by reading motivational posts and remembering when you were successful at something. So you no longer feel average. Beat the frustration out (not that way ) via sports or something else.

Above all improve yourself until you are happy.