"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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undecisive about hairstyle

What is best?

  • A weird hairstyle that looks very good on you

    Votes: 6 31.6%
  • A more normal hairstyle that looks good on you

    Votes: 13 68.4%

  • Total voters
    19

Jay-X

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i don't know wether i should keep my hair as it is (it looks very good when i keep it wet and nice and my girlfriend loves it, but if i don't take care of it constantly, it gets nerdy and weird) or trim it shorter (my gf would hate me for it, but it'd look good anyway, plus i could sport different hairstyles with that length, and i shouldn't worry about it becoming messy, since it would still be cool)

what would you do if you were in this situation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spider_007

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I have short brown hair, and UNLESS i go out i never comb it. I wash it, blow it, and it falls down to it's place. I spike it up when i go out.
 

Jay-X

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Originally posted by spider_007
I have short brown hair, and UNLESS i go out i never comb it. I wash it, blow it, and it falls down to it's place. I spike it up when i go out.
i'm wondering if i should keep it as yours, maybe just a little bit long so the curls are visible (girls seem to dig them a lot over here), but my girl says it looks better when it's pretty long... the fact is, unless i take care of it at least 2 or 3 times a day, it looks somewhere between nerdy-messy and afro...
 

Interpol

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My hair is similar to yours...Right now it's pretty short and I love how convenient it is, it always looks presentable even when I just roll out of bed...But there's definite a certain appeal to longer hair as well, and not as many guys can pull it off.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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medjaun

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I tried growing mine out as requested by (now ex) wife. Like you it took a lot of care to look right. Some days looked good others not as good (I thought). So now I keep it pretty short on top and just got some clippers today so I can keep the sides nice and tight. I go for more of a euro hair look which seems to suit me best. And it's a hell if a lot more convenient.
 

Paintballguy

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I'd go with a shorter/medium length... You can always put gel or wax in it if your going out somewhere. I usually keep my sides shorter and have more hair on the top.
 
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